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 Hello, Burris folks! 

When it comes to sexual integrity issues and relational betrayal we know how hard it is to find trustworthy, solid, experienced help. We've been there! We, along with our team of coaches (who've all been there too) are ready to walk with you!

Below you'll find the ways we can help! 

WHT Academy

  • This monthly membership is our most cost effective means of help for couples. You'll get access to our teachings, tools and live office hours with our team!
  • Use the coupon code BURRIS at checkout to get 10% off your first 3 months! 

Help for Wives

  • We provide individual and group support for wives experiencing the pain of betrayal.
  • Click to find out more and let us know Burris sent you!

Empathy Master Class

  • Our Master Classes for Men are live taught (not recorded) classes where we deep-dive on topics related to recovery and restoration. 
  • The Empathy Master Class will help you identify the compassion and emotions of empathy, how to access them and how to communicate them to foster connection and intimacy.
  • Use the coupon code BURRIS at checkout to get 10% off this class!

Triggers Master Class

  • The Triggers Master Class will educate you on what happens when a wife experiences a trigger of betrayal, how to handle it and create healing rather than more hurt.
  • Use the coupon code BURRIS at checkout to get 10% off this class!

Intimacy Aversion Master Class

  • The Intimacy Aversion Master Class will help you see what makes us want to run from intimacy and put up walls to insulate ourselves from rejection. We'll talk about where it comes from, how to break down the walls, and what authentic intimacy looks like. 
  • Use the coupon code BURRIS at checkout to get 10% off this class!

Foundations of Freedom Master Class

  • The Foundations Master Class is for men struggling with sobriety and continued sexual acting out. We'll help you understand the cycles of destruction, addiction and recovery, along with practical tools and guidance to find freedom.
  • Use the coupon code BURRIS at checkout to get 10% off this class!

Kitchen Convos Course for Couples

  • In this self-paced course Jason & Shelley will walk you through the start-to-finish process of recovery from sexual betrayal. Video based, along with a workbook with guided questions and conversations, this course will give you hope and practical tools. 
  • Use the coupon code BURRIS at checkout to get 10% off the course!

Couples Coaching

  • Our TrustworthyU couples coaching program is designed to help couples find redemption through coaching, teaching and accountability for men. Click to find out more and begin the application process. 
  • Click to find out more and let us know Burris sent you!

About Us

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Jason Martinkus 

After sexual addiction almost took his life and marriage, Jason was called to help other men. He received a Bachelors degree in Finance from the University of Oklahoma and worked in the corporate world for companies such as Arthur Andersen and Interstate Batteries. After leaving corporate and going into ministry, he went back to school and received a Masters in Counseling from Denver Seminary. Today he is a Board Certified Coach and President of Redemptive Living, a Denver-based coaching and speaking ministry. He has dedicated his life to helping men find freedom from sexual integrity issues and marriages find redemption beyond betrayal. His first book, Worthy of Her Trust (Waterbrook Press) released in 2014, followed by the Summit Devotional and Understanding and Loving Someone with Sexual Addiction in 2018. Jason, his wife Shelley and their 3 boys call Denver home.

Shelley Martinkus 

Shelley is a wife to Jason and mom to three boys. Her world changed forever when she found out about her husband’s sexual addiction. God used Jason’s betrayal as a catalyst for Shelley to look at her own life and start to heal all the broken pieces she saw staring back at her. Shelley and Jason are now 20 years into their journey and Shelley likes to say that her relationship with God, with Jason, and with others is better because of what she has been through. She has written one book - Rescued and co-authored two books - Worthy of Her Trust and Understanding and Loving a Person with Sexual Addiction. She calls Colorado home although a part of her heart will always reside in Texas, her native homeland.

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After 20+ years in the process, helping thousands of people along the way, we’ve identified the key challenges that couples face in restoring their marriage and the best ways to get through them. Let us walk a few steps of the journey with you!